India N. Miles

If you’ve hit 35 (or beyond) and realized your life feels like an endless loop of work, errands, and emotional survival—you’re not alone. In this week’s video, Getting a Life After 35 , I talk about how many of us mistake busyness for having a life, when in reality, our schedules are full but our souls are starved. Your interests, your friendships, even your appetite for connection have changed—and that’s not a crisis, it’s a signal. It’s time to build a life that reflects who you are now,...

In this week’s video, Laid-Off From a Job, Finding You , I talk about the importance of pausing and reconnecting with yourself after an unexpected layoff—a step I wish I had taken during my own experience. In 2013, I quit my job, walked away from everything I owned, and financially bankrupted myself to pursue my calling and obey God. I moved to Charlotte with a plan and a temporary job, only to have that contract terminated just weeks later. Desperation set in because my plan had been...

In this week’s video, Balanced, Not One-Sided Relationships, I unpack why the quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life—and how to create connections that reflect your growth, not drain your energy.